How to quit gambling
A Singaporean by the username “TheWholeBank” post a very wise comment in my thread “Any one need help in gambling” in the baccarat forums. Read slowly his comment. Do not scan. The comment is:
“I agree with the position that to help gambling addicts, one must help them become better gamblers.
Once they understand gambling theory, the smart ones will leave gambling for good or small trips, the not-so-smart ones become living examples of their recklessness/arrogance/stupidity.”
I agree that to quit gambling you have to become better gamblers. Learning to become better gambler is the way to quit gambling. Play less for recreation only is the same as responsible gambling. This is described as “small trips” by “thewholebank”
My reply was
“A wise summary.
The smart ones can take care of themselves.
The not-so-smart ones need help
Cognitive behaviour therapy is the answer.
The question is how do you know whether you are the smart ones or the not-so-smart-ones.
Compulsive gamblers got scammed by the casino for years. They have difficulty seeking help because the sucker opportunists continue to scam them to perpectuate their flawed gambling habits. Finally, they give up seeking help and cause unnecessary hardships to himself, his family and the society at large. These compulsive gamblers come from all walks of life.
“They become living examples of recklessness, arrogance and stupidity”. Thanks to his post, the smart Singaporean sincerely teaches us not to be reckless, not to be arrogant, not to be stupid.
This remind me of the book by Professor Morteimer Feinberg
“Why Smart People do dumb things.” It is an excellent book. I like it.
He concluded that a matured personality is the answer to prevent yourself from being reckless, arrogant and stupid.
The definition I particularly liked for a mature personality is based on Mortimer Feinberg’s six basic principles of maturity. (In this context, maturity means growth in emotional maturity). See how I approach these six basic principles. Again read slowly. Do not scan. Pay special attention to the first two — accept yourself and accept others.
1. Accept yourself.
Accept yourself is the most important of the six principles and the hardest to achieve. Only if you can accept yourself with all your faults then only can you accept others with all their strengths and weaknesses
2. Accept others.
When you can accept others you will realize that human beings are interdependent. You will stop being frightened at the idea of depending on others. At times we need help. People need people. No matter how smart we are, our cognitive power can carry us that far. We are unable to shoulder the responsibility of life’s multitudinous tasks.
3. Keep your sense of humour.
A sense of humour is an important adjunct of maturity. But make sure it is mature humour, not immature, sarcastic humour. It is always good to laugh off the dark side of life. Laughing off is also a good way to handle massive frustration.
4. Appreciate simple pleasures.
One of the biggest setback of life is gratification. Rich people become poor because of impulsive gratification. Gratification is a vice. Matured person takes steps to eliminate gratification from their lifestyle. As such, matured persons are always humble.
5. Enjoy the present
This gives meanings to life. Do not postpone your need for gratification. Robert Kiyosaki call this delay gratification. In my opinion, delay gratification is wrong. Matured person do not need it. Eliminate delay gratification from your matured life. Substitue gratification with enjoy the present.
6. Welcome Work
Basically, this means that your good health and education as well as your achievement in money, relationship and power do not come naturally. You have to pro-actively work at it. Therefore, a matured person must welcome work at these areas of private victory (health, education) and public victory (money, relationship, power)
If you would like to read further you can preview them at my personal-development website.
or you can email me at soondr@gmail.com
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Problem gamblers or their close ones can contact gamblinghelp for advise and assistance.
Mild cases can be handled by private email to me at
soondr@gmail.com
It is free and will always be.”
For severe cases you will need several months of counselling sessions (cognitive behaviour therapy) by trained counsellors and/or psychiatrists.
Sometimes medications are used especially in cases with suicidal tendencies.
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During these 12 months I am training my supporters and followers in affiliate marketing, so that they can sell my ebooks and earn commissions, usually about 50%. (This decision will be made later). Buyers cannot buy directly from me. They have to buy from any one of my affiliates. This is to protect the interest of my affiliates. Top affiliates generally earn more than US$10,000 per month after two years of hard work. Give it a try.
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